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Hope begins in the dark, the stubborn hope that…
by Nanette

birds in a tree

... if you just show up and try to do the right thing, the dawn will come. You wait and watch and work: you don’t give up. Anne Lamott

I should have found this quote the other day but it will do just as well for today. Dawn is sometimes a long time breaking.

I had other options for quotes; after all, there are zillions of people who have said quotable things, but what caught my eye about this one was the word “stubborn”.

Stubborn. So often that is a negative. A stubborn child (I was said to be one). A stubborn stain. A stubborn man or woman, who won’t budge from a wrong path. Bad things that won’t go away everywhere are said to be stubborn.

But some things should be, must be stubborn.

Hope. Without that, life would be unendurable for a good portion of the world.

Generosity. I had never thought of a stubborn generosity - of spirit, of time, of money - until I read a future friend’s work that mentioned it. But after that, I’ve seen an abundance of examples of it in many places past and present.

Friendship. Lasting through the good and the bad, pursued despite time and distance, nourished and propped up when it flags, greeted anew after time away - I’d say that many lasting friendships are of the stubborn variety.

Belief. In one’s self or in someone else (or, if you are so inclined, in spiritual matters). For all the pop culture hoopla over believing in yourself, I am not sure all that many do. Even some of the more successful people. They may believe in their abilities, to great monetary or professional success, but in themselves? I’m not so sure, for many. To me that is something much different and separate from just what is conventionally considered success.

And you can hardly do a more stubborn thing than trust. In yourself, surely. That’s a lifelong lesson to be learned, for some. Trusting in someone else is, at times, easier - though still the height of stubbornness.

I think I like this.

Here’s to living a stubborn life today. And all the tomorrows.

On 01/12/10, Melonhead99 said...

when you click on comment, and comment window opens, you can’t see the thing your commenting on, which is a bit of a pain

On 01/12/10, Nanette said...

Oh, you mean the article doesn’t show? I will see if I can figure out how to change that.

Are you still freezing? Also are you able to sign into this blog? I have figure out what is what.

On 01/14/10, Melonhead99 said...

I sign in ok now

On 01/14/10, Melonhead99 said...

tell me when you are fully up and ready, I’ll stick a link on twitter, probably won’t do much good, not many followers, but never know?

On 01/17/10, Nanette said...

Thanks! I want to get some more stuff up first, and also work out the bugs. If I can… can’t quite figure out how to fix the comments thing, with no article showing up.

On 01/21/10, Chinese Learner said...

Check the code of your blog platform. It seems it is corrupted. See, for example, the top of this page.

On 01/21/10, Nanette said...

Heh. Thanks Chinese Learner (and hello!)

I tend to mess things up every time I touch the code.

On 01/21/10, Chinese Learner said...

Hi, I do apologize. It seems I forgot to be polite :-( Ciao from Italy!

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